“Marry ASAP & Go Face Your Dem0ns Together” – Charles Awuzie Advices

Charles Awuzie dropped a bombshell on Facebook, and the internet is buzzing. He claims, “If you date someone for too long, you will find a reason not to marry them. If you find someone who ticks 80% of your boxes, marry them ASAP & go face your demons together . It doesn’t matter how long you date, you will still discover things you don’t like in the marriage. So just get married and find out everything inside marriage. If you date for too long, you’ll find reasons why you shouldn’t marry them. Enough of – I am trying to learn more about him/her. Just marry and learn yourselves together in the marriage.”

This sparked a massive internet debate. One netizen admitted, “This explains why I’m still single I’m always trying to learn more and date for long. Infact I RUN when a man is in a hurry to marry me. I fear he may be trying to hide something. I have learned something today. ” Others, however, strongly disagreed. One shared, “If my wife and I did not date for about 3 years before getting married, the marriage wouldn’t have lasted for 3 months. Most of the things that caused serious arguments while dating are no more our problems now, thank God for the years of dating. The truth is that, you can’t be right all the time sir and we can correct you on this. Rush in and rush out.”

Another netizen added a time-sensitive twist, saying, “If you’re a woman aged 25 or older, you shouldn’t be in a relationship with a man who isn’t ready to settle down within six months to a year. Avoid long-term dating at this stage of your life.” But what about those who feel they don’t even meet the 80% benchmark? One netizen humorously asked, “What of we wey no reach 40%…so we should forget about this thing called marriage na. Okay oo, Boss don talk sha.” The core of the issue seems to be balancing careful consideration with the risk of overthinking which takes alot of time.

Is there a perfect formula, or is marriage just a leap of faith?