Father of 4 defends his wife from body shaming by netizens.
Father of 4 defends his wife from body shaming by netizens.
Father of 4 defends his wife from body shaming by netizens.
An X user @Jahchriso have shared the reactions he got from Nigerians when he posted throwback pictures of himself and wife of 6 years ago.
He tweeted – ” 2.3m views for my wife adding ordinary weight.”
The post triggered massive and negative reactions from Nigerians.
Most were trying to body shame his wife by calling her ‘fat’, but despite all they were saying, he maintained that he still loves his wife.
Some people are advising him not to pay attention to what jobless Nigerians are saying about his beautiful wife, who have given birth to 3 children for him.
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Here are mixed reactions from the replies on his X account.
@johndoee_pa – “That’s not ordinary weight like you think it is.
Yes; you have no right to body shame your wife or make her feel worthless.
But truth be told, she’s fat & it’s unhealthy.
Regardless, you married a good woman , seeing how much love you have & willingness to defend her.
End”
@Lalahlivin_ – “I am so sorry. Your wife is a very beautiful woman. It’s sad that we have to deal with this level of idiocy in our society. Ignore them. You have a lovely family sir.”
@roy_yute – “5.3M now, you have forgotten Nigerians don’t have real life problems.”
@ngkhalela – ” I’m so sorry about all the meanness you’ve had to read. Sending all my love to you and your family. All the best, bro. “
@Mz_MariaC – ” I salute you for your love towards her, and I am truly sorry for the mean comments. It’s funny how people who have no idea the battles you both faced all through your birthing journey are dropping very mean comments. Here’s to raising a glass to you and your beautiful family.”
@ForeheadedM – “I’m so sorry.
Sending love to you and your wife.
God bless and keep your beautiful home.”
@ezeigwechi659… – “Don’t mind them brotherly. They don’t know the story. They don’t know how you started at all….. I just dey read comments, dey laugh . Werey people everywhere….”
@ogbmartins77 – ” E shock you????? If you can’t stomach the h@te on social media, please don’t post any personal stuff here. Family, achievements, relationships and such. There is no love here even if your wife was mamiwater, people must talk.”
@Em_high22 – ‘I’m not in support of bad comments of people but I believe if you can give jab, you should be ready to receive jab also.”
@FunmiKolz – “The husband has spoken o, the rest of you can now keep shut and mind your business.”
@timxdesign – “These are some factors that lead to a women adding weight after giving birth or during pregnancy.
Increased Blood Volume and Fluids: Pregnancy increases blood and fluid levels in the body.
Placenta and Amniotic Fluid: These add to the total weight gain.
Fat Stores: The body naturally stores extra fat to provide energy for breastfeeding and labor.
Giving in to cravings during her months of pregnancy.
So it’s normal for the body to change, but if a body can become fat, it can also become slim…
That’s where you as a husband start to encourage her in dieting, gyming and donating blood if she has excess blood in her system.
It’s not rocket science, it might just be case of ignorance and neglect…”
@kemsdesigns – “Women gain weight during pregnancy for several reasons, including fetal development, increased blood volume, etc.
This weight gain is normal and varies from woman to woman, influenced by factors like genetics and whether they are carrying multiples. After having multiple children, some women may find it challenging to return to their pre-pregnancy weight due to hormonal changes and lifestyle adjustments.
Just because yours didn’t gain weight doesn’t mean another won’t.”