“Challenges Men Face” Kaffy Speaks Amid 2Baba and Annie Idibia’s Breakup
Nigerian dancer Kaffy has weighed in on the recent 2Baba and Annie Idibia’s separation. In an emotional video on her Instagram, Kaffy said she is close to both of them and asked the public to have mercy and understanding.
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Kaffy started by saying she’s supporting both 2Baba and Annie, and that they are both going through tough times. She advised against judgment and instead saw it as a learning opportunity.
In a video she shared on her Instagram handle she said, “I’m rooting for both of them as they are victims of their circumstances. I know both of them very well, and I’m not going to bash any of them. 2Face and Annie is a petri dish for us to learn not to judge. Let’s give grace and pray for them.”
She went further to explain the challenges male celebrities face. She narrated, “Let me give you a perspective that could be the issue for male celebrities. They are usually under target, and we women are their biggest enemies when they are at a vulnerable moment in their careers. Did any man plan to have plenty baby mamas?”
Kaffy also went further to talk about the mutual toxicity in relationships, saying no one is completely blameless. She noted, “Both of them have been through toxicity. An average male celebrity is a victim. Despite all of these problems, some girls are still in 2Baba’s DMs like this. I am not trying to absolve him of his problems—he should get help. Nobody is innocent!”
Afterward, she asked a bigger question, “Why are over 60% of marriages failing? Some of us women have that mindset that we will change him. We should stop! If we want to stop being victims, let’s do better. Because it is also a woman that is confusing the man; we have that much power. The devil is winning; let’s work on ourselves, we serve grace.”
The video sparked lots of reactions with many of her fans supporting her.
@iam__semileniola said, “That’s a smart and intelligent woman right there👏❤️ God bless you and I hope God opens the heart of people so they can actually understand everything you said in this video ❤️ &💡”
@moyoimages said, “I love this, well said . I hold on to a point : we find it difficult to change some of our ways, now imagine trying to change another person! WORD!”
@official_busoolami said, “This should go viral and be preached everyday..we all need to do better”
@ayodejiemmy said, “If you start a podcast, I’ll also listen everyday”
@emryn_jane said, “I love the fact that you addressed the issue and didn’t pick sides. We humans need to do better, be kind to each other fr… I’ll say it again “we are establishing healthy relationships henceforth”!🙌”
Watch the video below:
