“Do background checks before marriage”– Veterans actor Chiwetalu Agu warns singles
Popular Nigerian actor Chiwetalu Agu has shared an important piece of advice for singles. In a recent clip, the veteran actor seriously advised singer Nigerians to conduct background checks before considering marriage instead of rushing into marriage as a result of peer pressure, desperation or pressure from family.
According to the legendary Nollywood celebrity, many people make life-threatening mistakes in choosing partners without understanding their true nature.
He advised singles to thoroughly investigate their prospective spouses to avoid dangerous and regrettable unions at the end of the day.
He emphasized that marriage should never be seen as a do-or-die affair. He encouraged individuals trapped in toxic and abusive relationships to prioritize their safety above societal expectations.
“Marriage is not a do-or-die affair. If you have an abusive partner, or are in a toxic relationship, run for your life. If you are not happy in your marriage, seek help or run for your life.”
His advice resonates with growing concerns about domestic violence and emotional abuse in marriages, particularly in societies where divorce is stigmatized.
“Divorce is better than rest in peace. I want to stay because of my children or because he is rich. That was how a lady was burnt to death by her husband. Now, who will take care of the kids? Is it the husband that killed you? Or the relatives who love their own families?” he said.
